Posts Tagged ‘Redefine your immortality’

Ask The Eye, Face It….. Redefine Your Immortality

April 11, 2012

Dear Eye View

About six months ago my doctor gave me two more years to live. I started using that time to make peace with my family, especially my wife, as we’ve had a turbulent marriage. Things have been going well so far and our marriage is probably the best it’s ever been. What I am wondering now is if I should tell my wife that I’ve had an affair for eight years with another woman. It ended a couple of years ago and we’re not even in contact anymore. But there is always a chance that my wife will find out. I don’t want her besieged with unanswered questions or anger she can’t express after I’m gone. I am also worried that if she were to discover the affair after my demise, she will feel as though the last good years of our marriage were a sham. But on the other hand, I don’t want to spend the last year or two we have together dealing with this revelation. What is your take on all this? And yes, I know I’m a total jerk, among other things you can’t publish publicly. Please spare me the judgment and give me some advice here.


Dear A

I understand your concern. I would suggest breaking the news to your wife like everyone else. Post it on Facebook ¬†and redefine your immortality . In terms of your immorality.. You’re on your own..Hope this helps.