Dear Eye View
About nine years ago my husband found out about an affair I had been having with a co-worker. My stupid mistake almost cost me and my husband our marriage, but thankfully many counseling sessions and one branch change later I was finally able to regain his trust and we held our marriage together for us and our two kids. Fast-forward to now, my oldest daughter is pregnant with her first child and just told me that she and her husband have picked out a name for him, the same name as the guy with whom I had the affair. I am immensely worried that when my husband finds out his future grandson’s name it will rip open an old wound and he’ll start resenting me again or worse that being reminded of that painful time in our marriage every time he sees his grandson may cause him to love the baby less. Eye View, how do I get my daughter to reconsider her baby name without revealing my affair, which I know would crush her?
I understand your concern. Tell your daughter for improved name strength the babys name needs more characters. Hope this helps.