Dear Eye View,
I just turned 60 this year, and seem to be in some sort of heated sexual frenzy. My wife and I have been happily married for 40 years. We are pillars of the community and have a great family. But we have only had sex with each other. We were high-school sweethearts and have been together sexually for 43 years (yes, I know I was young—but we took the appropriate precautions, and hey, we’ve been married for 40 years now, so no judgments). Anyway, we both want to do a little experimentation sexually and think that we can do it without hurting our marriage. We want to experience outside sex only. We are very committed to each other, and know that we will grow old together. Do you think this little experiment will backfire?
You old horn dog. At this point it would be best to turn down the thermostat and keep it all in the family. If you start experimenting at this point there could be unintendented consequences you will not be able to manage. And that could just be the “Tip of the iceberg”. Also if you go with the short robe keep it belted.. Hope this helps.